When Daddy Moves to an Apartment
Divorce is hard, thereís no question about it. Not only has your marriage ended but, most likely, your lifestyle is undergoing some drastic changes also. This is especially true if you are forced to leave the place that was home to you and your family. Depending on your particular situation, you may find that moving into an apartment is your only option. Many times itís hard to think of an apartment as home after youíve been accustomed to living in a house surrounded by family. But, if you choose your apartment wisely, you may find itíll become a cozy, comfortable haven.
Take some time to select your apartment. Remember, this is going to be your new home. Donít rush the selection process. Decide how much you can afford to spend for rent and look at as many apartments in that range as you can. Location should be one of your prime considerations.
Your life is complicated enough right now, donít make it worse by choosing an inconvenient location where commuting becomes a problem. If your children will be visiting regularly be sure your apartment is large enough to let them feel at home. If possible, select an apartment with a room just for them. Let them have a hand in decorating it so theyíll feel a part of it. If you have joint custody of the children and they will be living with you while attending school, youíll also want to choose an apartment that is convenient to their schools and recreation areas. The type of apartment you choose will be important to how well you adapt to living in it. Like a house, choose one that fits your personality. If you like puttering in the yard, make sure there is some private space where you can do that ~ even if itís just planting flower boxes on your patio. If you enjoy cooking, make sure the kitchen meets your requirements. You also need to consider the atmosphere of your apartment complex.
If youíre going to have children living with you part time, most likely a singles community would not be the best choice. Neither would you probably want to choose an apartment in a building that is filled with senior citizens. If there are pets involved, make sure rules donít prohibit them. Turn your apartment into a home. Donít consider your apartment a place of exile! Itís your new home and if you want to be happy there, you must give it your attention. Unpack the boxes and arrange your furniture in a way thatís pleasing to you. Hang pictures or other art work on the walls and stamp your new home with your own personality. If you take pride in decorating it according to your own tastes, youíll find it becomes a welcoming and comfortable place to be. Remember you no longer have to consider anyone elseís preferences ~ this is all yours to do with as you please! The more youíre apartment reflects you and your interests, the more it will seem like home. Enjoy it!.
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